Friday, October 27, 2006

my gym guy...

Its just been a looonnnggg week for me… no reason in particular, it just has been… I’ve stepped up my working out… I usually work out 6 days a week to train for the marathon I’m preparing for, but this week I was more focused, my workouts were longer, more dedicated, more focused and more exhausting. The cute guy that works at the gym came out to me yesterday during my work out to be like “wow, you’ve been really working hard lately”… in mind I was think, so you’ve been watching me then, score! Ok, so here’s the deal, there is this FINE man that works at my gym, let’s call him IN, … he’s is tall, dark and oh so handsome… he actually is enough motivation for me to go to gym… he always comes and talked to me during my workouts (not a one minute chat, but a 5/10 min chat) and he just always so nice… he’s older than I expected (he’s 34) which usually would bother me, but for some reason it doesn’t bother me at all (but then again he doesn’t look a day over 26/27 yrs old)… anyways, we got to talking about a bunch of different things on various occasions.. and he’s asked in 2 or 3 ways about whether or not I had a boyfriend… which I kinda always brush off, but always tried to sorta let him know that I didn’t have one… but then I couldn’t decide if he was married or not… I once noticed a ring on his left hand, but I don’t know if it was on his ring finger… and now every time I try to look, his hands are casually in his pockets… but he definitely flirts with me… and like I said he is eye candy… hmmm… I actually know more about him than I do my own trainer (who works at the same gym and I do spend a fairly good amount of time with my trainer)… One time he even said ‘I don’t understand how we have such beautiful and success single women in this world’... yeah, I was blushing, but I tried to play it off… I dunno, but I do have to admit that I like the attention from him… you know, that fact we catch each other’s eyes at the most random moments, and he gives me that winning smile (even when he’s with a client) or just the fact that he keeps up on my progress and also asks how things are going and so on…
one of these days, when I go to the gym early and its not crowded and we’re having one of our casual convos, I’m probably bring it up or just ask him… especially since he’s asked me or inferred about where or not I had a boyfriend like 3 separate time… but then again I don’t wanna seem to forward! Wish I could go to the gym today… but I can’t, a sister is getting her hair braided this afternoon… YES!!! Can’t wait to get my hair done and be looking all fresh… its gonna be a good weekend!

happy Friday everyone!

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

mos def go for it!!!

Naijadude said...

Hmm I'd advise you to tread on the mill slowly. Just marvel in the heat of the moment but dont get all lost for it cos you dont want to be beaten down later on if homeboy turns out to be married or worse still, these days, gay! LMAO!!

But still, watch ur back well, you know how beautiful strong women long for something yet they dont let it get to them. Tease with it on the surface!!!

Anonymous said...

Make sure you ask if dude is married. You def. aint tryna be the other women. That aint good for you at all.

If he aint married, make it do what it do.

Discombobulated Diva said...

yeah, i'm gonna find out if he's married or not first... and if he's not, then its on... i'm gonna bring my A game :-)....