Sunday, September 28, 2008

Where in th world is DD???

Its been ages since I’ve written or even checked on my blog… a lot of things have happened, but what’s been keeping me so busy that I’ve had to abandon my blog… I’ve been working on my Dissertation which I’ve finally finished and prepare to turn in in a few days… other than that, there have been a few ups and downs… so I’ve give just a brief update of the ups… this summer was a blur, there was a lot going on, I was busy trying to be studious and work on my dissertation, but in the mist of that I manage to travel the around the world as well… I went to the states for a week and a half for my sister’s wedding and then I flew around the world to China to meet up with my friends and watch the Olympics… The Olympics was an amazing experience, and visiting China for the first time was also amazing… never seen so many Asian people in my life… it was a bit of a culture shock, but it was a really good experience and I got some good shopping done while I was there…

Aside from my trips, things in London have been interesting! I’ve met some interesting guys over the summer, but none that I was interested in really pursuing anything with only because I was focused on my school work and traveling… but now that I’m about to hand in my dissertation, and I’m done traveling, I have no excuses as to why I’m single, so as my parents gently reminded me I need to focus on that part of my life… but to be honest, its not like I can make someone fall in love with me or I can’t fall in love with someone that’s not good for me, just for the sake of being with someone. The added pressure doesn’t help the situation much. I just turned 26 a few weeks ago and its not that I’m not aware that I’m getting older, but as I said I can’t force something to happen…

So now that I’m just about done with school here in London, now I need to decde what I want to do next… what the next steps are for me… do I want to stay in London for a bit, pack up and move to Nigeria or go back to the states (the states which I miss so much)… I know I’m gonna be in London at til early 2009, but I need to start thinking seriously about what my next move is… I would like to stay in London for a bit longer so I can enjoy the experience without the stress of school for a bit, but I do miss the states and not having my family around!

What other updates are there to give…. So my ex, TA, I still him around, he’s been on my mind lately, not in a romantic manner, just been wondering how he’s doing… I do talk to him occasionally, I give him a call every once in a while just to check up on him and see how’s he doing… we don’t really see much of each other these days cause I don’t go to the same clubs he usually goes… been exploring London and trying new places, which has been a good experience thus far…
On the guy scene… well lets just say that there is a guy on my radar, but I haven’t focused too much attention there just cause I’ve been so distracted… but once this dissertation is behind me, I’ll see what happens…
Aside from that, i can't wait to get back to socializing and just being me :-)...

I'm gonna try to get back into blogging... let's hope i can keep to my word!!!

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Ive been out of the loop too ... but thats what livin life is all about right?!

Anonymous said...

yay! it`s about time girl

Brothers Blog said...

I'm sure that the olympic experience had to be phenomenal. I could only imagine. congrats on finishing your dissertation. good luck on the new guy

Anonymous said...

i don't know how i stumbled across your blog, but let me just tell you that we're soulmates. I too, at the hugest girl committment phobe i've ever known. I studied in London for a semester as well and I too am 26... AHH! nice to meet you bff.